DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been dating my boyfriend for six months.
Most of the time, he is a really great guy. He takes me out on thoughtful dates and is a great communicator. However, sometimes when I ask him to do a small favor for me such as opening a pickle jar that’s too hard for me to get or get me a glass of water, he will blow up at me. He starts yelling that I can’t do anything for myself and…