After threats, spouse decides to repair marriage

DEAR HARRIETTE: I was really upset with my husband a couple of weeks ago, and I called my friends and even my attorney to say, “This is it. I’m done.” I was that mad.

Yes, I have been that mad before, but I felt like I was at my wit’s end.

Now, several weeks later, we are still together. We did have a talk of sorts. I laid out my grievances for the gazillionth time, but he seemed to listen a little …