DEAR ABBY: One of my husband’s sisters has eight kids, ranging from 15 months to 20 years old. She hasn’t taken care of any of them for more than three years. They never saw a doctor, they didn’t have food in the house, and she was abusive.
When she lost custody, the ones without dads in the picture went to live with another one of my husband’s sisters. Since then, three of the children she was car…