Babysitting mother disregards boundaries

DEAR HARRIETTE: What should I do if my mother is smothering me? My husband and I recently moved closer to my parents because we have two little ones. My daughters are 3 and 4 years old, and I need help with them because my husband and I both work full-time.

My mom has a key to our house for when she comes to watch my kids.

While I appreciate all the support and love my mom provides, her frequent and…