DEAR HARRIETTE: My boyfriend is incredibly stingy. We get along well in many ways, but when it comes to money, he’s not what I expected. He never offers to pay for our dates. It’s not that I mind splitting the bill sometimes, but I’ve noticed that he never makes any effort to treat me, even on special occasions.
He’s also extremely reluctant to share anything. If we’re out to eat, he won’t offer me…