Bride’s choice of groomsman brings back painful memories

DEAR ABBY

DEAR ABBY: I am a 37-year-old man who is getting married for the first time. My fiancee, “Holly,” and I went to middle school and high school together, but never really got to know each other until a few years ago. I love her more than words can describe, and I’m happy to be getting ready to spend my life with her.

Growing up, I was socially awkward, partly due to having Asperger’s, whic…