DEAR HARRIETTE: My mother-in-law has dementia, and she recently suffered a massive stroke. She is not doing well.
We have hired around-the-clock care for her and are even paying my husband's sister to lend an extra hand.
As my mother-in-law's condition worsens, my sister-in-law and the nurse we hired have had to take on more responsibility. Understandably, we had to up the nurse's pay in order to ke…