Husband refuses to act kindly to spouse

DEAR HARRIETTE: I decided to give my husband a second chance after he and I went through a bad patch. I prayed on it and realized that I would rather recommit to him than whatever the alternative may be. The thing is, he hasn’t done the same. He continues to bully me, chastise me and treat me like crap.

I realize that this is going to work only if we both make the commitment. I have tried to get hi…