DEAR ABBY: My husband and I were recently matched with a child in an adoption. I’m not experienced with children, but my neighbor “Kara” has two kids around the same age as our future son. I like Kara and really want our child and me to spend time with her family.
The problem is, my husband has forbidden our son to hang out with Kara’s children because she and her husband let them run wild. They ha…