Mom upset that daughter is dating older man

DEAR HARRIETTE: My daughter is dating a man who is 17 years older than her, and I am livid. I told her that neither of them is likely in the relationship for honest reasons as he is a wealthy man and she is in her mid-20s.

I don’t want to meet this man, but my daughter wants me to. She insists that I am judging their relationship before I’ve even given him a chance. She says he treats her with kind…