DEAR HARRIETTE: I feel like I can never say no when I am asked to do something. This is getting to be a problem because I feel like I am stretched too thin. My job is stressful, and the stakes are high right now. As a result, my boss is piling on more and more work.
In my personal life, my friends rely on me to help them whenever they are in a bind. I am the go-to person when there is a problem. I …