Parent worried marriage won’t survive

DEAR HARRIETTE: My son is applying for college this year and will likely go away to school next fall. I have prepared for this day for years. I know my job as a parent is to get him ready to be an independent adult. He is ready – but I don’t know if I am. That’s in part because I don’t know how my marriage is going to survive after my son goes.

I spend most of my time with my son. My husband sits a…