DEAR HARRIETTE: I bought some jewelry from a vendor, but I needed to return it. We organized the return, but she gave me the wrong ZIP code. It took me a month to track the package so that she could pick it up. Now it has been another month, and she hasn’t gone to pick it up. At this point, I’m tired of waiting for my money back. It’s on her that she has had family and work issues and hasn’t been …