Dear Gov. Cuomo: Even if you're the boss – perhaps especially if you're the boss – when you're a 63-year-old man smitten by a lovely 20-something at the office, there are several considerations to keep in mind:
First: It's crucial to wait for her to make the first move. Anything else, and you're just asking for trouble.
Second: Don't hold your breath.
See, normal old duffers are restrained by the pri…