Vague relationship needs clarification

DEAR HARRIETTE: There is someone in my life I care about deeply.

She is kind to me and encourages me to pursue my dreams, travel more, explore new hobbies and a whole lot more.

I show up for her, too, and do my best to be supportive, but I struggle with romance and affection. I’ve never been good at those things, and it never felt like a priority to change that. But I think it’s taking a toll on her…