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Couple has wildly different musical tastes

Couple has wildly different musical tastes

Couple has wildly different musical tastes

DEAR HARRIETTE: My partner and I do not share musical tastes — at all.In the beginning, I thought it was cute. He would listen to certain things that I had never heard of, and vice versa. We explored each other's musical tastes a bit early on, but now it's just annoying.
New York City: Sanctuary no more

New York City: Sanctuary no more

New York City: Sanctuary no more

Recently, New York Mayor Eric Adams announced that the city has printed thousands of flyers it plans to distribute at the U.S.-Mexico border. The flyer has a simple message to illegal border-crossers: Don't come to New York.
Relationship drama ruins trip to visit friend

Relationship drama ruins trip to visit friend

Relationship drama ruins trip to visit friend

DEAR HARRIETTE: My best friend goes to college in Europe and always spends his holidays over there with his family. Due to this, I get to see him for only two weeks in the winter when he comes home.
Intercostal neuralgia, pain after thoracotomy

Intercostal neuralgia, pain after thoracotomy

Intercostal neuralgia, pain after thoracotomy

Dear Doctors: After a thoracotomy for lung cancer surgery, I had pain and tingling, along with tightness and spasms, in my midriff. I was told it would ease, but it hasn't. It's been a year, and the spasms are sudden and severe. CT scans are normal, and meds and physical therapy help only a little.
DO JUST ONE THING

DO JUST ONE THING

DO JUST ONE THING

Have you ever used a toilet in a public restroom and noticed it's leaking water? Over time, even a small leak can waste thousands of gallons of water as it goes unrepaired.
Family confidant spills relative’s secrets

Family confidant spills relative’s secrets

Family confidant spills relative’s secrets

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have a relative I viewed as a second mother since before I can remember. We were extremely close. Just like with my real mother, I trusted this person enough to confide in her about very intimate details of my life.
Puritanism and power is prevalent

Puritanism and power is prevalent

Puritanism and power is prevalent

Something tells me I've seen this movie before. Back in my own elementary school days, we read about Dick and Jane. Even at that tender age, it was clear to me that they were Protestants and Republicans, although I had only the foggiest idea what those things were.
New diet research focuses on methylation

New diet research focuses on methylation

New diet research focuses on methylation

Dear Doctors: I keep seeing news stories about a diet that supposedly reverses aging. It involves something called 'methylation.' Is this real, or is it just someone's new theory?
Teen feels pressure during parents’ divorce

Teen feels pressure during parents’ divorce

Teen feels pressure during parents’ divorce

DEAR HARRIETTE: I know you usually talk to adults, but I need help. My parents are in the middle of getting a divorce, and it's been tough on the whole family, but it's for the best because their relationship hasn't been working for many years.
Threat of the third party

Threat of the third party

Threat of the third party

WARREN, N.H. — Not that they share a mutual dislike, nor that they consider each other a threat to the nation or to democracy, nor even that they hold a decadeslong grudge, but Joe Lieberman and Dick Gephardt are at it again.