Columns & Opinions

Scholarly reader wants to find love

Scholarly reader wants to find love

Scholarly reader wants to find love

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have never been in a relationship. I am almost 20, and I have never experienced romance. Many of my friends have already had boyfriends or girlfriends, gotten involved in summer flings or even found their life partners.
Happily unmarried couple reaches impasse over kids

Happily unmarried couple reaches impasse over kids

Happily unmarried couple reaches impasse over kids

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a decade. We’re nearly 30 now. We are happy not being married, and we both agreed early in our relationship that we would not have kids. All of a sudden, my boyfriend has decided he wants children.
5-Year-old’s fondness for lead paint requires intervention

5-Year-old’s fondness for lead paint requires intervention

5-Year-old’s fondness for lead paint requires intervention

Dear Doctor: My 5-year-old grandson craves lead paint and has used his toothbrush to get at old layers of lead paint in his family’s renovated 1880s home. His development has slowed, and people think he’s autistic. If it’s the lead, what can we do? Dear Reader: Your question covers several issues.
Husband always backs out of date nights

Husband always backs out of date nights

Husband always backs out of date nights

DEAR HARRIETTE: Every time I get tickets for a special event and invite my husband to go with me, he reneges on the day of. Like clockwork, he finds some excuse for not being able to join me. I get these great, free tickets through my work.

Advice for properly disposing of dog waste

Dog waste can be a problem in communities if it isn’t properly disposed of; it can pollute waterways and raise the harmful bacteria level in public water. A good rule of thumb is this: Don’t just leave dog waste in the yard or in the woods and let nature take its course.

Shouldn’t every vote count the same?

If the last school bond election had only required a simple majority of the votes cast it would have passed. But the law says it had to receive 60 percent of the votes to be approved – and it fell well short of that.
Where were they during the past three years?

Where were they during the past three years?

Where were they during the past three years?

Attorney General William Barr is looking into the murky origins of the politically charged Justice Department investigations that have roiled American public life for the last three years.
Have you ever had the urge to call the toilet paper hotline?

Have you ever had the urge to call the toilet paper hotline?

Have you ever had the urge to call the toilet paper hotline?

Back in the days when American dads were building fallout shelters in their basements and backyards, I always wondered where we would put our garbage during a thermonuclear war. I wondered this because one of my chores was to put out the garbage on collection days.
California is a whole different bird

California is a whole different bird

California is a whole different bird

In Iowa, they pause for coffee at the Kum & Go convenience stores in crossroads scattered around the state. In New Hampshire, they engage voters in school gymnasiums and on town street corners. In California they appear on television. They've been doing it this way for a third of a century.
Woman is trapped by guilt in an accidental friendship

Woman is trapped by guilt in an accidental friendship

Woman is trapped by guilt in an accidental friendship

DEAR ABBY: Years ago, I was friendly with a man from work who was very close to his mom. She came along with us once for lunch and ended up really liking me. From that point on, whenever he and I would get together for lunch, she would tag along.