‘Bff ’ develops feelings for friend’s brother

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have had the same best friend for nearly a decade – since middle school. Due to the length of our friendship, I have gotten close with her and her family, even going on trips with them. I’ve noticed lately that I have started to develop feelings for her brother.

He’s a year younger than us and consistently accompanies us on hangouts and various activities. I sometimes feel like he…