DEAR HARRIETTE: My fiancé and I dated for a little while in high school and rekindled after college. About a year ago, he proposed to me, and I said yes.
At the time, I was living with my parents but spent many nights at his place, so eventually, I moved in. It wasn’t planned, but I am the oldest of a family of seven children, so I spent a lot of time at my fiancé’s place by default.
After moving in…