DEAR HARRIETTE: I caught my 16-year-old daughter smoking cigarettes out of her window today, and I’m beside myself. I asked her how long she’s been doing this and who got her into smoking, and she told me this was her first cigarette and nobody told her to smoke. When I looked at her cigarette pack, it was half empty – she was lying to me! I don’t want my daughter to smoke, especially at this youn…