Daughter plays second fiddle to brother with grandchild

DEAR ABBY: My mother has always had a horrible habit of making plans and canceling at the last minute. When I make plans with her, she invariably cancels the day of. Lately she has started making me feel guilty for not coming around more.

I lost my license two years ago, so I can’t drive, and

I work full time. She has no job and several vehicles. I’m not saying she doesn’t have things going on, but …