DEAR HARRIETTE: I am from Los Angeles. Last year, I was in a longdistance relationship with a man from New York City. I hadn't really been to New York before I started seeing him, but I visited three times last year just to spend time with him.
We broke up earlier this year, and I haven't been back since. Today I was asked to fly to New York for a work trip. I am feeling uneasy about visiting. I ha…