Dinner host upset when item goes missing

DEAR HARRIETTE: I had a friend over for dinner who brought along a friend of their own. While I was in the kitchen preparing food, the friend of a friend had free range of the house. After they left, I realized that a valuable item was missing, and I can’t shake the feeling that it was this friend of a friend who took it. The problem is I have no concrete proof.

I don’t want to falsely accuse someo…