DEAR HARRIETTE: I have two young children and a husband who works all the time. He wants to be supportive, but it’s a hollow idea. When he gets home from work, he is so tired he may spend a few minutes with the kids, but that’s about it. I work part-time while the kids are in day care, then I’m at home with them for the rest of the day. We can’t afford full-time day care. I don’t know what to do. …