Secret egg freezing causes marital guilt

DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m in my early 30s, and for as long as I can remember, I’ve dreamed of having kids. My husband, however, is not on the same page – he’s made it clear that he’s not ready for children and may never be.

I tried to respect my husband’s feelings, but as time passed, my anxiety about waiting grew stronger. Eventually, I decided to freeze my eggs at a fertility clinic – without telling h…