Boyfriend’s public proposal brings up doubts

DEAR HARRIETTE: My boyfriend recently proposed to me, and I said no – not because I don’t want to marry him, but because of how he did it.

He proposed at a baseball game in front of a huge crowd, and it felt completely wrong for me. I don’t even like sports, and he knows that.

I’ve always dreamed of a more intimate and meaningful proposal, something that reflects who we are as a couple. Instead, I f…