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Son drops med school, picks up modeling

Son drops med school, picks up modeling

Son drops med school, picks up modeling

DEAR HARRIETTE: My son quit medical school about a year ago to chase his passion of becoming a model. He moved to New York City, but he hasn’t been able to book many jobs.He also works part time as a server to be able to cover his living expenses.
Elizabeth Ko, M.D.

Elizabeth Ko, M.D.

Owning dog may protect against mental illness

Dear Doctors: My wife read somewhere that when kids grow up with a dog in the house, it can keep them from getting schizophrenia. I know that having a pet can help kids develop responsibility, but preventing mental illness seems like a stretch. Is this based on psychology – or something else?
DO JUST ONE THING

DO JUST ONE THING

DO JUST ONE THING

• The automatic dishwasher is the most energy- and water-efficient way to clean dishes when you wash a full load. But did you know that pre-rinsing plates and utensils isn’t just a waste of water – it actually can harm your glassware?
Employee questions drinking at work functions

Employee questions drinking at work functions

Employee questions drinking at work functions

DEAR HARRIETTE: I just got a new job, and it’s a lot of fun and even more responsibility than I previously had. My boss is cool and we often work long hours together, including going to tons of social functions. My boss doesn’t drink, but I do.
Elizabeth Ko, M.D.

Elizabeth Ko, M.D.

Blood pressure machines should not hurt

Dear Doctors: Blood pressure machines at doctors’ offices often cause me extreme pain. During a recent surgery, the repeated readings left me with bruises and caused burst capillaries. Often, my arm isn’t even supported. What can I ask them to do differently?
Friend still owes $8,000 for move

Friend still owes $8,000 for move

Friend still owes $8,000 for move

DEAR HARRIETTE: My friend owes me $8,000 and hasn’t been able to pay me back for a year. I have been asking her for so long, and every response I get is her telling me she will have it for me “soon.” I loaned this money to her a year ago, and she moved to the state I am also located in.
Elizabeth Ko, M.D.

Elizabeth Ko, M.D.

Review multiple prescriptions with pharmacist

Dear Doctors: I’m a 74-year-old woman in good health. During any medical visit, if I have any issues, I’m prescribed an additional medication. I don’t feel like the list of medications is reviewed, it just gets added to. What advice can you offer to narrow down all the medications?
Friend group does not like co-worker

Friend group does not like co-worker

Friend group does not like co-worker

DEAR HARRIETTE: Over the summer, I became extremely close friends with a new co-worker. We talked whenever we worked together and eventually began hanging out outside of work.
Lucky to be living this unremarkable life

Lucky to be living this unremarkable life

Lucky to be living this unremarkable life

I woke this morning from a vivid dream.The tricky thing about vivid dreams is that what seems vivid about them is usually difficult to describe. The vivid part is the feeling: the way I am completely in this dream and accept the reality of this alternate existence I am living.
Birthday party invitation dilemma

Birthday party invitation dilemma

Birthday party invitation dilemma

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am planning a trip for my birthday, and managing the invites is intimidating! I don’t like traveling with large groups, so I’ve decided I would like a total of four to six of us on the trip.