Classmate creates one-sided rivalry

DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m struggling with this weird competitive energy between me and one of my classmates.On the surface, we’re friendly – we study together, share notes, even joke about motivating each other. But lately, it feels like our “friendly competition” is not so friendly anymore.

Comments about daughter cross the line

DEAR HARRIETTE: My friend and I were talking recently, and she made a comment about my daughter that caught me off guard. It wasn’t outright cruel, but it was insensitive: She implied that my daughter was “a lot to handle” and hinted that her behavior made it difficult for people to be around her.

Bone bruising is localized area of fractures

Dear Doctors: I slipped and slammed my shin on the metal ledge of a moving van. I could still move my toes, turn my foot, stand on it and walk, so I figured it wasn’t a break. A few days later, a big lump showed up, with lots of swelling and bruising. Could it be it actually was broken?

DO JUST ONE THING

• Backyard bird and nectar feeders need to be properly filled to avoid getting birds sick.When it comes to birdseed, be sure to store it in a dry place inside an airtight container. If there’s any moisture, mold and bacteria can grow.

Cheap friends won’t stop complaining

DEAR HARRIETTE: Two of my friends are extremely cheap, and it’s getting to the point where it’s hard to enjoy doing anything with them. We all live in New York City, and as you know, the cost of simply existing here is high.

New hobby causes roommate complaints

DEAR HARRIETTE: I started making pottery as a new hobby, and I love it, but my roommate keeps making jokes about how messy it is. She calls it a “mud factory” and even moves my supplies around without asking, which makes it hard for me to focus or enjoy my work.

Stay home from work when you’re sick

Hello again, dear readers! Welcome to a bonus letters column. This time, we’re focusing on two questions, one important and one just plain interesting, so let’s dive in.– A reader from San Diego is worried about the upcoming cold and flu season.

GDF-15, link to hyperemesis gravidarum

Dear Doctors: My daughter suffered from hyperemesis while she was pregnant two years ago, and it was truly a miserable pregnancy. Is there a way to prevent this for future pregnancies?

Daughter follows boyfriend down path

DEAR HARRIETTE: About a year ago, my daughter asked if I might hire her boyfriend, who has taken a nontraditional route after high school. Instead of pursuing college, he decided to explore a trade. He’s a bright kid and a fast learner, so she thought it might work if he were my apprentice.

DO JUST ONE THING

• If you’re on the fence about buying the newest expensive gadget, consider renting it for a week instead. Digital cameras, camcorders, iPads and gaming systems can be rented by the week at many national chains, like Rent-A-Center.